― Ama Ata Aidoo
University of Missouri-Columbia, Missouri |
Townsend Hall- The university's school for education attended by many of the professors' children. |
I loved summer school!! I had talked my parents into letting me live in a small basement apartment (no hours) with my girlfriend who was working on her master's that summer. Another friend of ours who had graduated that previous spring came the first weekend of summer school and STAYED! We were all pretty good party gals, but Beth and I had to get up and go to classes. Joanie slept all day and was ready to go again each night so we had to curtail our partying to Thursday, Friday and Saturday night. (Joanie, by the way was the same girl who had the crush on Dick the summer before! And the friend who had the aunt and uncle in Coral Gables,Fla. where we stayed when we went to the Orange Bowl in 1960.)
That summer our favorite hangout was The Black Knight...a pub considered to be so wild that the Stephens Girls were not allowed to go there! It wasn't that bad, and we Mizzou coeds were ok with the "susies", as they were called, not being there! And coincidentally, that guy (future husband) happened to be living with two of the guys who worked there! Dick had a job at the only upscale restaurant in Columbia but as soon as he was off work, and when not working, he headed for the Knight...so we kind of hooked up that summer...we kept pretty close company for about eight weeks!
Of course, we didn't just hang out at the Knight...there was the Stables, Andy's, the Shack, the Coronado Club and a private party lake where we spent most days. I didn't have a car in college...so my friends and I had to always hook a ride with who ever was heading to the lake. Times have change so much...we had dorms for girls with hours to be in, and now there are coed dorms. I never felt afraid to go out with guys I didn't know! It just never occurred to any of us that it might be unsafe to jump in the car with a guy you didn't know. Date rape was really unheard of...at least in my world. And our drug of choice was beer. If there were other drugs around I was not aware of them...a kinder, gentler, more naive time!
By this age, 21, I was a quite a bit more mature than when I started school four years previously. And, even though I was still having a great time, I was much more responsible and did see to getting to my classes and doing a good job as student teaching. I realized that my parents had sunk quite a bit into my education and that the party could not go on forever! And, unrealistic as my student classes were, I really enjoyed my kids.
By this age, 21, I was a quite a bit more mature than when I started school four years previously. And, even though I was still having a great time, I was much more responsible and did see to getting to my classes and doing a good job as student teaching. I realized that my parents had sunk quite a bit into my education and that the party could not go on forever! And, unrealistic as my student classes were, I really enjoyed my kids.
Awesome post Aunt Jaye. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteJaye, that sounds like so much fun! I visited your college with a close friend when in high school and trying to figure the next step. She was killed in a car accident before our senior year and all that went out the window. My husband of many years was the first on the scene...didn't talk about that much. Wound up at junior college at home working, then to OSU an hour away. My student teaching was pretty much like herding cats...early grade school kids who weren't much interested in art....couldn't wait to get to the older ones!
ReplyDeleteMy student teaching at Northwestern U consisted of one semester of all day every day in a 4th grade classroom, with one seminar a week. I really learned a lot, and (except for room environment - which was really BIG in California where I started teaching, and not so big in Evanston,IL) felt pretty well ready to start in my own classroom. I graduated in December, and waited until fall to actually start teaching. I did not want to take over for a lousy teacher mid year, and taking over for a really good one might be even harder. I worked in the Pentagon until the end of July, then took off for my new job in San Diego, CA - with a 3-4 grade combination. Not the easiest classroom I ever had).
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